La vita e bella

So many things have been going on lately, that I’m not even sure where to begin. In the past months I’ve been succumbing and being on my own for the most part. Not really interacting with anyone. This has been what I’ve needed to do in order to deal with issues I can no longer hide from. It’s been a whirlwind of emotions, let me tell you this. In the past month or so, I’ve been sick twice, the last time it was really bad and I almost thought I would die. As I had these thoughts, I knew in my heart that this is metaphoric – merely bodily manifestation of what’s going on within. Of finally releasing what’s been bottled up inside.

Lately I’ve been wanting to have a deeper understanding of what’s going on in this world. I watch my shows and often think to myself, what am I watching? The jokes seem weird. Some of the lines on these shows make no sense to me. The drama is almost too much to keep watching. And yet, I cannot turn it off. It’s as if I’m in trans-liked state. Being a conspiracy theorist comes to my disadvantage here as I start doubting if these thoughts are because I’ve been reading upon it. Because I question everything.

Then I read the news – not because I want to but because I have nothing else to do, I used to not read the news at all! – the negativity is just overwhelming. If it’s not someone murdering another, it’s about the tough financial situation many countries are facing, the political issues, but what strikes me personally the most, is the fact that there are a lot of protests against something. The way I look at things is why don’t you celebrate the beautiful being that you are rather than go against to protest something, to categorize yourself in a box. La vita e bella, life is beautiful, and so are you. It is time to start loving life, loving yourself, loving the nature as that is so much more fulfilling than anything else in this world.

By watching these shows that I do, and thinking to myself what am I watching, by reading the news with all the negative happenings, now more than ever I feel being pressured by media. I feel media is trying to influence how I should behave. It is a way of being controlled. Even the music I listen to, doesn’t inspire me in the least, and it used to. It used to be a way out for me, to express myself, to get lost in the beautiful melodies of instruments. Of words that would express almost exactly how I feel. These days, the songs have no meaning. It’s just about partying, and all other things that are meaningless.

I guess what I’m battling the most with at the moment is, at heart I feel free, I am free. When I see the worldly manifestations, it doesn’t match up. It is filled with negativity, things our egos need to be fed with. All of it is just lies after lies. When are the people going to wake up to what is actually going on, and what is important in this worldly manifestation we call the Mother Earth?

I choose not to be put in a box, I choose to be me and the fact that I am a beautiful earthly being. I see what’s going on, I’ve seen it for a longer time. This is my deeper understanding. And yet, my ego is telling me that I’m crazy, I’m going crazy. What if the people who have been labeled as “schizophrenic”, having “dissociative identity disorder”, or “bipolar disorder” really have seen things in different perspective, have understood what I have understood? But they have been put in these boxes because the governments don’t want us to be free, they don’t want us to understand? What if people who are “diagnosed” (read: labeled or categorized) with such diseases are easier to control by being put in medication? My what if list is endless, and I don’t want to get sidetracked here.

The point I’m trying to say is, rise above it and feel the love. Free yourself from “should” “have to” “must” for those have negative influence on you. Free yourself from labels. Rather than going against something, and protesting, find the love. Find the positive and loving aspect of things for it is much more fulfilling than anything else! Allow yourself to feel whatever it is you’re feeling, acknowledge it, accept it, and thank for it. This will help release whatever it is that you’re feeling, positive or negative.

The way I see things, the life we live has no borders. Countries, religion they are border-less. For if we love one another, there is no need to protest. There’s no need for battles or wars.

How do I love myself?

To continue with yesterday’s theme, which was breaking free & happiness comes from within. I came across this article on my facebook feed, from a wonderful page called Meditation. I wanted to share the message with you.

 

Love has three stages. First you have to learn to love yourself, because only if you love yourself can you love the other. You have to love yourself so much that love starts overflowing. Perhaps that is where you are; you need the other. That is the second stage of love.

Loving the other is a difficult job. Loving oneself is simple. Because the other need no

 t fit with you, need not fulfill your expectations; the other may start power trips, ego trips, all kinds of numbers. And you will need love enough not to be dominated, not to be destroyed by the other; otherwise, the other always destroys it.

Jean-Paul Sartre is not absolutely wrong when he says the other is hell. Alone you can be silent, peaceful. With the other everything becomes difficult, everything becomes a conflict. The very presence of the other makes demands on you. You have to be very compassionate, very kind, not to get caught into an intimate enmity; otherwise the other is going to become a hell to you.

You have to be so loving that your love transforms the other, to such an extent that you can say the other is not hell. You have to be very articulate, very understanding. It is one of the greatest experiments in life. There is no other experiment which is bigger. You have to love in such a way that slowly, slowly it changes the other person, and the other person starts dropping the effort to dominate, the effort to manipulate. It all depends on your love.

In each case you should remember that you have taken the step. It is your experiment, and you have to be grateful to the other that he is participating in your experiment. If you want your experiment to be successful, then you have to go on loving in spite of the other, not bothering about small things.

Only when you can love the other person to such an extent that it becomes a transformation in him or in her does the third stage of love arrive. Then it is not a question of two persons loving each other; then it is love which engulfs two persons and the two persons become, in a certain deeper sense, one whole.

In India we have the statue of Aradhanishwar, half man, half woman. That is the third stage of love: when the man and the woman are no more two persons, they have become half and half into one whole. This third stage of love is, automatically, meditation. One who can reach this stage need not do anything else for meditation; this will be his mysticism. This was the whole approach of tantra, to reach to the third stage of love; then no other religion, no other methods are needed. Love itself becomes your god, your ultimate experience.

But the second stage is really difficult; otherwise, for thousands of years people would not have escaped into monasteries. What was the fear? Why were they trying to hide in monasteries?

The second step is really difficult, and because of the difficulty all religions have chosen to escape from life. But escaping from life is not the answer, it is simply cowardice.

Life has to be changed through understanding. And if you love, love has an alchemy of its own. If love cannot change the other person, it only means you don’t know what love is; you must be misunderstanding something else for love, because love is absolutely capable of changing people. In fact, it is the only way to change.

There is no place where love is being taught. There is no place where love is being nourished. That is one of the functions of the mystery school: to make your love pure, pure of ego and power and domination — just a sheer gift of joy, a delight in the being of the other person, just a sharing of all that you have, holding nothing back.

Love is the greatest magic.

Don’t be afraid of the other; let the other enter your life. I don’t teach escapism. I teach you to go into the world, to transform the world, because only in that transformation will you be transformed. By escaping to the hills and to the monasteries you will miss transformation yourself. You will shrink, you will not expand. And if you cannot love a single person, how are you going to love the whole universe? And that’s what prayer is — loving the whole universe.

People feel that it is easier to love the whole universe, because there seems to be no problem — the universe, the trees, the stars, the moon, the sun… they don’t create any problem.

The other creates trouble because your love is not enough. If your love is overflowing, the other will be showered by it, cleansed by it. And instead of creating trouble for you, the other can become a tremendous help, a complementary part in the organic unity of your being, and can lead you to the third stage.

It all depends on how much you can love.

And I don’t think that one should be miserly about love. It costs nothing. And it is not a quantity, that you have loved one kilo, so now there is one kilo less. It is not a quantity.

The more you love, the more you have it.

The more you give, the more the universe goes on pouring into you from all sides. There are hidden springs, just as in a well.

Love has an underground way of filling you, invisible.

The only way to know is just give it and see — you are always full.

Osho Upanishad # 29/

 

Breaking free

Today marks quarter century for me, in other words it’s my 25th birthday. A friend of mine has been doing a celebratory blog/speech for years, so thought I’d do something similar as well.

 

10 years ago when my sister was my age, I thought it was such an old age to be. I thought by then you’d have to be an adult, have settled down, have a family and such. Well, that was my biggest dream at that age. When playing with my cousins, I always played and dreamed of having the spouse of my dreams.

 

Yesterday, when I went for a walk with my roommate, somehow we ended up talking about grandparents and when we were in the car coming back from the walk, she was telling me what I’ve been thinking in my head for a little while now.

 

I only have one grandparent alive, my mother’s mom. I love her to bits, she’s always been very special to me. Any sort of news that goes in my family, instantly goes around and everyone knows about it within the day. Well that’s how I’ve felt anyways. Ever since being a teenager, I’ve always felt pressured to do thing in a certain way as it’s been the only acceptable way within my family. Being young and the sweet person that I am, I’ve thought by living up to their standards and making them happy, I’d make myself happy. If I didn’t go down the route that was expected of me, I was always very nervous to tell about it, fearing they wouldn’t accept me anymore. I’ve been very pressured by my family. I’ve always felt I haven’t fit the mold. That I’ve been way too different.

 

Slowly, over the last couple of years, I’ve started to break free of my family’s expectations of me, and started to live my life more for me. Or well that’s what I thought at least. Till I started living it for my spouse – we had it all, the house, animals to look after – I had my own little family. He supported me while I was going against the norm, being my backbone for so many years. I may have broken free from my relatives but I still wasn’t living for myself. It’s not until now that I realize this, after I’ve lost that as well. Since losing the family I had created myself, I’ve been completely lost. Beat down, without my backbone.

 

What my roommate told me in the car, without her realizing she’s saying it out loud what I’ve been silently thinking in my head – breaking free from others expectation may be one of the hardest things to do but it will be the most rewarding as well. You’ll be respected for standing your own ground, even if people may not agree with you. She also told me that many people think pleasing others will make you happy in the end, when it actually doesn’t. This made me realize how much of my life I’ve spent trying to please others, not really standing my ground, which in turn has made people think of me as this young, fragile little girl who needs to be protected.

 

For such a long time I’ve let people walk allover me, even the one who I’ve spent my young adulthood with. I see glimpses of the potential I have in myself – the confident, fun-loving, spiritual being with a healthy self-esteem. For as long as I remember, I’ve thought by loving someone so much, they can make me happy. By living up to others’ expectations will make me happy. By pleasing everyone else and taking care of everyone around will make me happy. It is only now that I realize, happiness comes from within. I can only be truly happy when I’m confident about myself, when I respect myself, when I take care of myself, when I truly love myself, and know my true worthiness. I can make decisions that others may not be happy about or agree with me but they are my decisions to be made. And I strongly stand by them.

 

This is one of the biggest, if not the biggest and hardest lessons I’ve needed to learn in my life. It’s funny how it comes right the day before my birthday as well. Realizing this, however, makes me feel incredibly strong, empowered and happy. It may still take awhile to heal completely from my past, but at least I’ve made the first step. I am willing to make the necessary changes in my life that will fully empower me which in turn will make me complete in my own skin which will help me find ultimate happiness.

 

The Awakening by Darlene Gate

Fear Not

Today I’ve noticed that so many people are feeling low. I look at my facebook and the news feed of my friends, I mainly see people being negative, sad, frustrated, irritated, mad, or something of the sort. So this leaves me thinking, what is going on? Is today just a bad day for everyone, or is there something else that’s going on? Is it the collective consciousness that we start feeling what the other person feels?

 

I want to Google this but how would I even begin to form the words. What the Universe wants me to see, I’ll find it, and somehow I’ll find the right words to Google as well. By chance, I find myself seeing one of my favorite blogs on the list; Lucas 2012 Infos. There is an article in there that catches my eye; Ruth Ryden And the Master of Light, where Ruth asks a couple of questions from some Masters to help us understand what’s going on. I’m not going to post the whole article here. However, I did find a part that was quite interesting to me.

 

 

Dear Masters:  So many reports from readers of the feeling of emotional shifting within themselves and the world around them, that it becomes obvious that this IS happening.  Channels are reporting these effects all over the internet.  Please explain what is going on and how long this will last.

MASTERS:   “Does everything lately seem to be slightly off, your interests changing drastically, television productions seem too violent, too absurd, or really irritating?  Have your tastes in food, changed recently?  Has there been an opening in your concepts of who you are or what other people are like changing?   You are not imagining this.

Your awareness of the unusual weather patterns and plates moving about  in the crust of the Earth is becoming an actual shifting in the consciousness of humanity.    You are, and will be, seeing yourselves and others differently as you go through your normal lives.  Why?

As we have spoken about before many times, the word “frequencies” has to do with this.  As the planet’s place in the solar system has been changing slightly, so the frequencies that hold it there have produced numerous quakes and volcanic upsets.  Inner heating is melting the huge ice covers around the world; sea levels are rising.    It is not so hard to see then, that the consciousness  of humanity is also being  affected by this change in frequencies.

How does this affect you personally?   Have old memories started to pop up at odd times, perhaps things you really don’t want to remember?   Or perhaps some really beautiful memories that have slipped by for a long time?   Do you feel like crying for no reason at all?   Memories are becoming a constant companion for many of you, and, for those who need memory to work efficiently,  short and long-term memories are becoming easier to hang on to and use.  Computers are but an extension of human memory, after all.

Emotions are something else again.  The political battleground that is so necessary to keep your governments going is becoming a real irritant to many of you, prompting you to turn off the TV and find something more realistic to watch.  Emotions are running very high now, as they always do at such a time, but the stronger frequencies are causing even the most experienced politicians to say things they are sorry for the next day!   Your emotional well being is being massaged in a way that has never happened before on Planet Earth.  Your lifetime this time around is being magnified in all ways, according to the path you have chosen.  Your highs are higher, and your lows are almost unendurable.  Tempers flare easily and there is an inner need for something, something, but what?

People need people and the search for companionship becomes a necessity now, for someone else who understands what you are feeling.  Then, when everything is going well, negative thoughts flare up and ruin the whole thing.   It is very important at this time of transition that humanity makes a real effort to understand that emotions control most of your thoughts and feelings; this will be hard to manage for the next year or so.   To do so, it is needful to just stop for a few seconds or minutes to realize there is something different that is making you feel uncomfortable; allow yourself to see each situation very realistically instead of emotionally.  This will give you time to find ways to handle any situation without blowing it!

Those of you who are more spiritually aware feel this shifting as an energetic opportunity  and are, perhaps, in a situation where you can see and feel new ways of thinking and feeling that others cannot.  Poets are filled with new images, and writers are coming up with subjects they never thought of before.  Athletes are finding new strength and ways to control their bodies than they did before.  Different sounds of music are drumming through the heads of musicians, bringing new sounds to humanity that are harmonious instead of the raucous sounds that fill the airwaves now.   Scientists are, and will be, breaking through the difficult realities of space and time.  Nature itself is changing in ways that will be wondrous to behold.  New varieties of plants are appearing as ancient ones seem to fade away or change.

Nature itself is changing, as is becoming quite obvious of course.  Animals are going through slight physical  transformations and their mental awareness is increasing.  Pets either need more loving, or are becoming more into themselves, feeling uncomfortable perhaps.  Abnormalities in some wild animals will be observed; new species will be encountered very soon all over the world.

The frequencies of any life form are nature’s way of creation.  This is not something to be fearful of now, it is creation itself giving humanity and all life on Earth a new face and a new chance to find life more fulfilling.   Let your thoughts flow and your emotions react to what is new and different.   Yes, it works the other way, too.  There are those who will use the new energy in negative ways for their own selfishness and need for power and wealth.  This is as it has always been, and always will be in matter.  See it for what it is, and walk away.

Instead, be very close with your inner self now.  Be aware of your feelings and know that your soul is within this body for a very important reason.  Meditation may seem to be old hat, so to speak, but is now very important to allow the mind to meld with the higher consciousness that is really you.  Your path in life will be much easier and enjoyable when there is no conflict between your soul memories and your everyday thoughts and actions.  .We are always with each and every soul being in human form, helping and answering prayers all the time.  Remember, “Ask and you shall receive”.

 

 

I for one, have been quite out of my comfort zone lately. I feel restless, highly uncomfortable, and quite alone really. As I start thinking why this would be, it’s because I’m not comfortable by being by myself. In other words, I’m not ready to face myself and accept myself as I am. A couple of months ago, I couldn’t even look at myself in the mirror! When I would see my body in the mirror, I just kept thinking “what a fatty you are” and all I kept seeing was cellulite. The thought of looking in my own eyes, well scared me. Now as I have glimpses of myself in the mirror, I’m not so negative of my body image anymore. I find myself looking deep into my eyes, seeing the beauty of my soul. The first times, it has made me cry. It’s getting easier and easier as I do this exercise.

 

 

For all of my life I’ve had to learn to deal with loneliness. I’ve had friends, and group of friends, many of them have come and gone. For some periods of time I’ve had a couple of best friends that have been close to me physically, but mainly they are all so far away. This is something that I’ve had to deal with and learn to accept it. For the first time in my life, I’m now in a situation where I can’t cling on to anybody, not even myself. I’m in a situation where I need to accept myself as I am or I’m going to end up unhappy. Through this experience, I’ve realized that I am uncomfortable because I don’t accept myself, because I don’t love myself, for who I am. I’ve always been scared that everybody will leave me and I’m left all alone. And now I find myself in that exact position. The restlessness, uncomfortable, and loneliness all come from myself. Just as only I can make myself happy, only I can make myself really unhappy – it goes both ways.

 

 

After reading the post I was talking above, has left me thinking I’m not alone in this. I feel as though so many of us are feeling the exact same way. Today has been highly uncomfortable for so many of us, and maybe it is because we finally have to face ourselves. It is not an easy task to do. We will have to go through all the emotions but it is only normal. Do not shy away from the emotions but embrace them, let them flow freely. Only when you start fully accepting yourself, is when you truly will achieve happiness. That is also when you won’t be afraid to be alone anymore.

 

 

Why today has been such a low vibrational, negative day, I don’t know. Just let the emotions pass as if you’re driving a road and go past sunshine, rain, theme parks, stores, and so on. Start working on Yourself TODAY as you have been postponing it for long enough! It will only get harder for yourself from now on. Take baby steps, do what makes you feel comfortable at a pace you are comfortable with. It may take awhile, which is completely fine, as long as you make the conscious decision to work on this.

 

You can start by saying this; I am willing to change the pattern in my consciousness that is creating this condition. 

 

If you need any assistance or help with working on yourself, your self-esteem, or anything for that matter, please do not hesitate to contact me! You can leave me a comment here or if you want to have a private conversation with me, you can email me at dailyvisualinspiration44@gmail.com  I sincerely want to help you anyway I can! All of our conversations will be confidential!

Kymatica: Full Documentary

Right now, I’m too tired to get into this documentary in full detail. I just wanted to share this as I just finished watching it and it blew my mind! At first, I had no idea what it was all about but as it went on, I got into it.

 

Warning! If you do watch this be aware that there is graphic content pertaining animals towards the end. Nobody warned me about it..

What is a Twin Flame or Twin Soul?

Earlier today, I wrote about Twin Flame without really explaining what Twin Flames actually are. I will be quoting this from Isisjade as I feel they have written it in a very understandable form. They also have other articles concerning Twin Flames.

The twin soul/twin flame is a split energetic form that separates into yin and yang versions of itself. That yin/yang version spends many lifetimes looking for and discovering aspects of itself through connections with countless soulmates. Soulmates are soul contracts we enter into prior to incarnation – they are often people who have lessons to teach us, often painful lessons, along with karmic debt we must repay. When that debt has been repaid – the relationship and contract comes to an end. At that time so do our relationships. And it is time for the next one to unfold.

 

Often you meet your twin flame just as you are about to end a soul contract with another. In fact, it almost always happens at about that time. And for a time, you’ll find yourself struggling for awhile between upholding a dead contract and evolving yourself to embody the twin flame that is asking for you to journey with them.

Your twin flame – your twin soul – this is the heart that beats as one that has been split in two. These twins match each other in energetic resonance, match each other’s ambition, motivation, drive and recognize each other in a split second, even if they can’t name what they recognize about the other. Their energy diminishes when not together, and when together they expand and energize not just the room but their entire corner of the universe. They heal each other, they evolve one another, they take each other’s lessons as their own. They are dynamic. They recognize their one-ness.  They feed off one another and nourish one another.

The twin flame doesn’t fear the other in an energetic sense. There is an instant recognition of familiarity and mutual trust. There is no sense of jealousy or hate, nor fear with this person. It’s an innate and instant feeling of “at last I’ve found you”. As if you will ever be watched over and looked after now that you’ve found the other. Even if you are not together as you wish you could be, you are happy for the now, just to be connected and reunited again, and often very impatient to transform the world so you can be together. Often times you are split up throughout the course of your life and you find your resolve to reconnect is tested again and again. But you will eventually find the step that is in tune with the other.

The twin flame – twin soul isn’t just a sexual or romantic entanglement like so many people will have you believe. It goes much deeper than that. Every minute spent with that person is a minute where you learn more about yourself. Time stops when you are with them. You don’t have to speak to be together. You simply talk without verbal language. In fact everything stops when you set eyes upon each other, until you decide to resume the physical world again.

Your limits, your strengths, your weaknesses are perfectly reflected in that other person. That person reflects everything that the universe believes of you -  to you. They only ask you questions in an attempt to embolden you, to teach you, to mentor you to guide you or to seek your wisdom and strength. You may find they’ve suffered from a mysterious back pain from the day you had a serious accident. You may discover she’s had a mysterious allergy and find you have had a weakness or intolerance to a food. You find yourself ill when she’s ill, tired when he’s tired.

You are strong where she is weak. You are limited where she seems boundless. You see in her the pure unconditional love that reaches for you daily, that spurs you on to grow, to challenge yourself, to deepen yourself, to better yourself, and you have this unfettered desire to help her better herself, to challenge her, to reach for her, to help her grow.

This is true love. Not the paradigm of love we have longed believed in. This love is eternal, Unconditional. All encompassing.  Not raging, not consuming, not filled with a passion that quickly turns to anger or fear.

It is a pure love that only hopes and wishes for the best for the other in all they do. With you, or without you. Because once the connection has been made between twin flames, nothing can sever it.

Remember, the twin flame relationship doesn’t have anything to do with male/female traditional relationships. Your twin flame can choose to incarnate in any sexual entity she or he wishes. That’s part of the openness about twin flames. You accept each other for the pure and perfect being you see in the other.

After today’s research, I’ve found out that more often than not there is a certain pattern that Twin Flames might follow.

 

Stage 1:  Recognition and Temporary Spiritual Awakening

Characteristics of Stage 1:
Both Twins recognize one another at the soul level and feel as if they have met before.  Synchronious events surround the union.  The heart chakras open and both souls quickly merge into a third unified energy.  Both Twins experience an acceleration of spiritual understanding.

The purpose of the Recognition and Temporary Spiritual Awakening Stage:
To activate the memory of each soul’s life mission and to help awaken each Twin to higher levels of consciousness.

 

Stage 2:  Testing

Characteristics of Stage 2:
The initial temporary spiritual awakening (illumination) fades. The ego (“little self”) begins to re-emerge.  One or both Twins may attempt to fit the relationship into the “old model” of Love, couplehood and relationship as it relates to their ego desires and learned belief system.  Inner conflict arises.  Twins ruminate on what they were taught to believe their beloved “should be” and how relationships are supposed to serve them.

Both Twins feel simultaneously inspired and toppled by the power of the union.
Doubts creep in making one or both Twins begin to view their beloved critically or suspiciously.

The purpose of the Testing stage:
To cause outdated mental concepts about relationships to rise to the surface to be cleared.

 

Stage 3:  Crisis

Characteristics of Stage 3:
The crisis of the Twin is realizing they must reject their egoic beliefs about Love relationships or reject their beloved.  Having to shed “little self” or identity-based beliefs and desires to embrace a higher expression of Love can lead to stubbornness and anxiety.  Fear can take hold, triggering many dysfunctional emotional patterns.  In staying present with the patterns, they can be witnessed and released.

Despite fears, both Twins naturally come together in cycles for bonding, confession, forgiveness and Lovemaking.  These rituals cement higher levels of consciousness into the energy fields of both Twins.

The purpose of the Crisis stage:
To provide opportunities for the healing and maturing of the mental and emotional bodies.

 

Stage 4:  The Runner Dynamic

Characteristics of Stage 4:
The human ego naturally fears annihilation in the face of the Unified Consciousness encoded inside the Twin Flame Union.  The pain body rises up and old ego survival mechanisms or “bottom of the barrel” emotional and mental patterns like defiance, resistance, manipulation, anger, punishing and judgment arise.

One or both Twins become emotionally and mentally flooded with deep pain from what feels like soul-level rejection and abandonment.  The unbearable soul-level pain leads one or both Twins to withdraw physically and block communication in fear and futility.  One or both Twins may unsuccessfully try to re-create the original unified harmony.

The purpose of the Runner Dynamic:
To propel both individuals towards the Creator/God/Universe for healing and maturation of the spiritual body.

NOTE:  The temptation to engage in ego battle or withdrawal is very seductive and difficult for many to resist, which is why many Twins never reach Surrender, Radiance or Harmony.

Remember, there is no room for judgment in Twin Soul pairings. Each soul learns from much walking its own path and choosing through its own will.  Your non-attached loving thoughts will be felt by your beloved in the subconscious, keeping them strong.

 

 

Stage 5:  Surrender

Characteristics of Stage 5: 
The direction and outcome of the relationship is surrendered to the Creator/God/Universe in full faith and trust that the Union is under Divine Protection.  It is accepted that what is best and destined for the final physical harmonizing will transpire in its own time. (Both Twins must reach Illumination in order to harmonize in the physical)

The “Runner” Twin is allowed the space and freedom to choose to evolve at their own pace in their own way.  At this stage, the frequency of compassion returns and maintains itself.  The Surrendered Twin holds a heart space for their beloved while fully exploring life on the way to becoming an Illuminated human.  This may be a time of channeling Unconditional Love into art, music, writing, teaching, active service or some other creative outlet.

Purpose of the Surrender stage:
To help each soul release the ego, develop regular communication with  the Creator/God/Universe and demonstrate their full trust to do what is best and when.

 

 

Stage 6:  Self Realization, Illumination, Radiance

Characteristics of Stage 6: 
The ego or “little self” dies and the Universal energy takes over the body.  This leads to a complete spiritual awakening, arriving at one’s fully awakened divinity. This is the stage of radiating Divine Love rather than seeking romantic Love.

At this stage, the surrendered Twin’s emotional, mental and spiritual bodies arrive at full maturity.  New creativity and healing abilities arise, which are put in service to assist others.

Purpose of the Radiance stage:

To establish an outward flow of Divine Love through one’s body and works, which vibrates at a level that uplifts humanity.

Stage 7:  Harmonizing

Characteristics of Stage 7:

By this stage both Twins have awakened.  They come together in the physical to assimilate their newly evolved energies, flowing into the new dynamic of their Unified Potential.  Both Twins integrate fully into the third energy of Unconditional Love in a way that influences others towards their own heart opening.

Purpose of the Harmonizing stage:

To fulfill the intended mission of the Twin Flame Union.

**Twin Flame relationships come into your life to help mold you to embody the vibration of Unconditional Love.**